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An Overview Of How To Win Friends And Influence People By Dale Carnegie (Part 1)

Dale Carnegie. A reformed hothead who learned the art of manipulation after experiencing a series of down spirals in his life. Initially, I thought that this book was a lite version of the 48 Laws Of Power by Robert Greene, but I was wrong. The 48 Laws Of Power is a beginner manual on how to build power and respect. How To Win Friends And Influence People is an extension which helps you to maintain the power and respect that you’ve earned. So let’s dive right into it.

How To Influence People

1. Don’t criticize, condemn, or complain.

2. Dale Carnegie opens by saying that most criminals and politicians try to justify their actions when faced with criticism.

3. He explains that you shouldn’t expect normal people to take responsibility for their actions if most criminals and politicians refuse to do so.

What does this mean for you?

1. You should refrain from giving constructive criticism unless it will help you to achieve your goals (whatever your goals may be).

2. You can increase your influential power by not triggering the defensive shields of others.

Give Honest And Sincere Appreciation

1. Well-timed compliments help to influence the behavior of people.

2. He opens by saying that everyone wants to feel important.

3. He explains that most people become subservient when you make them feel important.

What does this mean for you?

1. You should give strategic praise to those who can help to further your cause.

Arouse In The Other Person An Eager Want

1. Give people what they think they want in order to get what you want.

2. Think about what the other person wants before you think about what you want.

3. Frame the solution as a win for the other person.

What does this mean for you?

1. You can entice others to behave the way that you like with carrots.

2. The way you present the carrot is more important than the carrot itself.

3. The way you present the carrot changes the perception of the carrot.

How To Make Friends

1. Become genuinely interested in other people.

2. Dale Carnegie opens by saying that the key to knowing people is by asking them stupid questions about themselves.

3. He explains that you can build helpful relationships by getting to know peoples names and inquiring about the small details in peoples lives.

What does this mean for you?

1. You should put your energy into courteous interactions with all types of people for the purpose of network building.

2. Only by getting to know people will you discover the resources and connections they have.

Smile

1. He opens by saying that pretending to be happy makes you feel happy.

2. Carnegie explains that happiness attracts people.

3. Happiness + People = Success.

What does this mean for you?

1. You shouldn’t dwell on negative emotions.

2. You should learn to convert your negative emotions into positive emotions and smile.

Remember That A Person’s Name Is To That Person The Sweetest And Most Important Sound In Any Language

1. He opens and closes by saying that name recognition makes it easier to accomplish your goals.

What does this mean for you?

1. You should try your best to remember the names of important people because it will work in your favor over the long run.

Be A Good Listener. Encourage Others To Talk About Themselves.

1. He opens by saying that most of us aren’t half as interesting we think we are.

2. Carnegie explains that it’s always better to indulge others and stroke their egos instead of our own.

What does this mean for you?.

1. You should indulge others and listen to their rambles.

Talk In Terms Of The Other Person’s Interests

1. He opens by saying that it’s often better to take an indirect approach to get what you want.

2. Carnegie explains that learning how to ramble is a good way to build interest.

3. He closes by saying that you should usually avoid taking the direct route.

What does this mean for you?

1. It means that you can miss opportunities to get what you want by taking the bull in a China shop approach to things.

Make The Other Person Feel Important And Do It Sincerely

1. Carnegie opens by saying that everyone is better than you in some aspect.

2. He explains that you need to make those people feel important in what they do so that you can get what you want out of them.

What does this mean for you?

1. You should pull people up in an attempt to unlock their talents and abilities (only if it helps to serve your cause).

How To Win People To Your Way Of Thinking

1. Carnegie opens and closes by explaining that avoiding confrontation can sometimes assist you in getting what you want.

“… I have listened to, engaged in, and watched the effect of thousands of arguments. As a result of all this, I have come to the conclusion that there is only one way under high heaven to get the best of an argument – and that is to avoid it… Nine times out of ten, an argument ends with the contestants more firmly convinced than ever that he is absolutely right… A man convinced against his will is of the same opinion still.” – Dale Carnegie

What does this mean for you?

  1. You shouldn’t waste time trying to win arguments when you could use that time to win at life.
  2. It’s okay to surrender in arguments if it’ll ultimately help you get closer to achieving your goals.

Show Respect For The Other Person’s Opinion. Never Say, “You’re Wrong.”

  1. Carnegie opens by saying that trying to prove others wrong only creates enemies.
  2. He explains that it’s better to concede and find a way to create common ground.
  3. He closes by saying that your goal should be to disarm those with a bull in China shop attitude by finding common ground.

“Men must be taught as if you taught them not,
And things unknown proposed as things forgot.”

“Be wiser than other people if you can, but do not tell them so.”

“Our first reaction to most of other people’s statements is to evaluate or judge rather than understand.”

What does this mean for you?

  1. You should deploy the line “I may be wrong, I frequently am. But let’s examine the facts” as way to find common ground.
  2. You should find ways to make the other person say “yes” in an attempt to disarm them.
  3. It means that once common ground is found and the person is disarmed, you can then guide them towards your line of thinking.

If You Are Wrong, Admit It Quickly And Emphatically

  1. Carnegie explains that it’s strategically clever to admit you’re wrong when you know that you’re wrong.

What does this mean for you?

1. You should admit when you’re wrong, rectify it, learn from it and come out stronger than those who cautiously try to avoid making missteps.

Begin In A Friendly Way

  1. Carnegie opens and closes by explaining that most conflicts can be resolved by starting in a friendly and agreeable manner.

What does this mean for you?

  1. When you open with aggression you remove the possibility of diplomacy.
  2. You should always approach others in a diplomatic way (regardless of the circumstances). If diplomacy doesn’t work, then you can take the aggressive route.

Get The Other Person Saying “Yes” Immediately

  1. This chapter is a review of “Talk in terms of the other person’s interests”

Let The Other Person Do A Great Deal Of Talking

  1. This chapter is a review of “Be a good listener” and “Encourage people to talk about themselves.”

Let The Person Feel That The Idea Is His Or Hers

1. Carnegie opens by saying that you have to casually plant your ideas into the minds others.

2. He explains that most people will eventually believe that your ideas were their own original ideas in the first place.

3. He closes by saying that sometimes you have to hand the glory over to others (if you want to control them).

What does this mean for you?

  1. It means that you can control your superiors by letting the glory shine on them.
  2. It means that sometimes you have to trade glory and recognition for power.

Try Honesty To See Things From The Other Person’s Point Of View

  1. Carnegie opens and closes by saying that you need to understand the other persons point of view in order to have a respectful and productive discussion.

What does this mean for you?

  1. You have to be in sync with others thoughts and emotions to build rapport.

Be Sympathetic With The Other Person’s Ideals And Desires

  1. Carnegie opens by saying that you can stop all arguments with this line “I don’t blame you for feeling the way you do. If I were you, I’d probably feel the same.”
  2. He closes by saying that most people will put their guns down after you’ve expressed sympathy for them.

What does this mean for you?

  1. You need to internalize the following lines below.
  2. “I may be wrong, I frequently am… But let’s look at the facts.”
  3. “I don’t blame you for feeling the way you do. If I were you, I’d probably feel the same.”

Appeal To The Nobler Motives

  1. Carnegie claims that most people will react favorably to your motives if you appeal to their honesty, uprightness, and fairness.

Dramatize Your Ideas

“Merely stating the truth isn’t enough. The truth has to be made vivid, interesting, dramatic. You have to use showmanship.”

What does this mean for you?

  1. Good ideas are useless without strong marketing.

 

 

I’m getting tired, so I’ll split this book overview into two parts. Check back tomorrow.

The political compass test pt. 2

You can view my answers here Taking the political compass test. (It will open on a separate page).

1. Of course, economic globalization should mainly serve the people. Not the corporations.
2. Soft disagree.
3. Disagree. It was by chance that I was born into the family that I have. That doesn’t mean that my love for them should change. So, no I don’t think it’s foolish to feel a sense of pride for your country of birth.
4. I’m a white guy, and I agree with this statement.
5. Yeah, the enemy of my enemy is my friend.
6. Soft agree.
7. Agree.
8. Yeah, agree.
9. Strongly disagree. Decreasing the rate of unemployment is more important than controlling inflation.
10. I agree. There must be standard regulations that require corporations to protect the environment.
11. Strongly disagree. Fuck off Karl Marx.
12. Agree. Tap water water should be good enough for the whole of society.
13. Strongly disagree. I’m in favor of buying and selling land.
14. Yeah, I agree.
15. Agreed. Protectionism is sometimes necessary in trade.
16. Disagree. That’s not to say that it isn’t important for companies to deliver profits to their shareholders. However, I believe that the needs of the employees should come first as they’re the most important asset to every company.
17. I agree that the rich are taxed too much in Canada. There is a declining incentive to strive for greatness because of the ridiculously high taxes that are imposed on the wealthy and the middle class. The federal government redistributes your hard earned tax dollars to lazy, undeserving people. They say that this redistribution of money is done in good faith. I don’t think so.
18. Yeah, I agree. I’m not in favor of paying for medical care through my taxes. When I need medical care, I’ll pay for it. Medical care should be a private enterprise.
19. Agree.
20. Agree.
21. Disagree. You could have a free market under a political dictatorship. A free market doesn’t necessarily indicate that the people are more free.
22. Agree. I’m a pro-life guy. I don’t agree with killing babies.
23. Yes, I agree. All authority should be questioned.
24. Agree.
25. Disagree. Taxpayer money should be used to fund some museums and theaters.
26. Soft disagree. Classroom attendance should be compulsory during primary school, middle school, and high school. However, I don’t think that classroom attendance should be compulsory in college or university.
27. I agree, but this appears to be a race baiting question. Realistically speaking, people have more in common with those who were raised in a similar way (in terms of cultural traditions, morals, and values). So yes, more often than not it’s better for people to stick to their own.
28. Agree. I was a naughty kid, and the fear of getting spanked by my parents helped to straighten me out. Sometimes kids need to be spanked.
29. Agree.
30. Soft disagree. I have nothing against people who want to purchase marijuana for personal use. The punishment for possession shouldn’t be too harsh. I don’t support the legalization of marijuana because it will cause a domino effect. Which will inevitably increase the speed of decline in society.
31. Yes, I agree. The main function of university/college should be to equip the future generation to find jobs in their field of study.
32. I’m sympathetic towards those with serious inheritable disabilities. However, I have to agree. Soft agree.
33. Yes, I agree. And I think that the Chinese education system is doing a better job at teaching children self-discipline than the Canadian education system.
34. This is a stupid one. Yes, there are savage people and civilized people. Most people are a byproduct of the culture from the country/society where they were raised. To say differently is naive.
35. Strongly agree. If you are capable of working, and you choose not to earn a living. Then you shouldn’t expect society to help support you.
36. Agree.
37. Disagree. My parents are first generation immigrants to Canada and they integrated perfectly.
38. Disagree.
39. Disagree. Christian broadcasting networks should receive public funding in Canada.
40. Agree.
41. This is a tricky question. Yes, I agree that a one-party state has an advantage over the Democratic political system (by avoiding all arguments). However, it doesn’t mean that I’m in favor of a one-party state.
42. Disagree. I believe that everyone has a right to privacy.
43. Agree. The death penalty should be an option for the most serious crimes.
44. Um yeah, I agree. That’s just how civilized societies function.
45. Strongly disagree. Look at the works of Jackson Pollock. This guy played a major role in the abstract arts movement.
46. Soft agree. Most cases involving criminals who’ve committed serious offenses can not be rehabilitated. For example, pedophiles. These people are sick and twisted. I’m very doubtful that you can rehabilitate them. When it comes to extreme criminal offenses, I support punishment over rehabilitation.
47. Agree, we just covered that topic.
48. Strongly disagree. The businessman and the manufacturer keep the economic wheel spinning. The artist and the writer influence and inspire people.
49. This is a terrible question because they’ve twisted it in such a way that you have to somehow choose between Mothers being house slaves or corporate slaves. A Mothers first duty is to take care of her children. So I reluctantly agree that a woman’s first duty is to be a “homemaker.”
50. Agree.
51. Disagree. Submitting to the establishment has nothing to do with maturity.
52. Hahaha!! Who made this questionnaire? Strongly disagree.
53. Agree. If God does not exist, then objective moral values do not exist. Gods nature provides a standard reference point for moral values.
54. Agree.
55. Disagree. The more that your remain in a state of stasis, the more “unlucky” that you will be. If you keep moving like a shark then you will increase your luck. So, no I don’t believe that some people are naturally unlucky. I believe that some people are hardworking, and others are lazy.
56. Agree. I don’t have any children of my own, however, I attended a Catholic primary school, middle-school, and high-school. So, I see the value in religious education institutions.
57. I agree that sex outside of marriage is immoral. And although I participate in the act of non marital sex, I’m not opposed to cultures or societies that ridicule and shame those who participate in it.
58. Strongly disagree. Same sex couples who adopt cause irreparable damage to children. They should never be given the opportunity to adopt and warp the innocent minds of little children. That’s child abuse.
59. Disagree. I’ve been living abroad in China for more than four years now, and I see the benefits of making pornography inaccessible. When a government makes pornography inaccessible nationwide, it’s a sign that they care about the well being of their people.
60. Agree.
61. Disagree.
62. Strongly agree. Openness about sex has gone way too far.

Taking the political compass test.

I decided to take this test to see what are my political affiliations. You can take the test at https://www.politicalcompass.org/test

My answers and results are below.

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According to this test I’m a centrist leaning towards the left, and authoritarianism. You can take the test by following the link below:

https://www.politicalcompass.org/test

The political compass test pt. 2

Decrease your dependence on the physical world with Orthodox fasting.

Welcome to try out Orthodox fasting with me.

Here are the rules:

  1. On the red days you can’t consume meat, fish, dairy, eggs, alcohol, and oil.
  2. On the green days you can’t consume meat, dairy, fish, and eggs.
  3. On the blue days you can’t consume meat, dairy, and eggs.
  4. On the yellow days you can’t consume meat.
  5. On the white days you can eat what you like.

You can view the calendar below.

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You don’t have to say that you’re a TRUMP supporter to support TRUMP. 

Whenever you meet an anti-Trump person who forces the topic of politics on you, just egg them on. Troll them. Just sit there and say:

  1. “Oh yeah, orange man is bad. That racist bigot. Fuck him, and fuck his hair.”
  2. “That’s right. This asshole is the one responsible for institutionalized racism and sexism. He’s the one preventing women and blacks from achieving equal opportunities in the labor force.”
  3. “Did you hear about the nazi concentration camps that he’s building on the Mexican border? I heard that the immigration officers working on the American/Mexico border are wearing swastikas on their uniform sleeves.”
  4. “Did you know that there has been a huge increase in the amount of KKK white supremacist armies? Oh yeah, it’s totally true. And every night they light up their tiki torches and hunt black men.”
  5. “Police officers, don’t even get me started. Seriously, don’t get me started.”
  6. “Oh yeah, there was totally collusion with Russia. I saw a picture of Donald Trump galloping on the back of a unicorn across a rainbow bridge with Vladimir Putin on Facebook, and that was all the evidence I needed.”

You have to be very serious and visibly distressed if you want to pull off that last one. And don’t forget to bob your head up and down like a parrot when you say it.

Conclusion: 

Vote TRUMP 2020.

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Let’s talk numbers.

Over the past two years, I’ve been guilty of spending the majority of my earnings in an attempt to build a comfortable lifestyle in a foreign country and settle into a decent University. When your life is unstable you can’t think too much about saving. Your main objective will be survival, and you’ll experience this if you choose to follow the same path as myself. But once you reach the point of material comfort (you have a stable income, you have the tools needed to sustain a relatively comfortable lifestyle, some reliable friends, and a plan for your future), then you can begin to think about creating a financial buffer zone for yourself.

If you decide to do what I did (which was stupid), then you need to understand that it’s going to be tough. You’re going to have to learn how to rough it out. The second time that I came back to China I had little money, and I arrived to a shithole bachelor apartment with nothing but a bed and an ancient television. When I’d come home late at night and turn the lights on, I’d watch cockroaches scatter into the corners of the apartment. There were no kitchen tools, and I had to scrounge up enough cash to buy pots and pans for cooking. There was no central air conditioning, and the TV was so old that it didn’t even have an HDMI input. The money that I earned was enough to feed myself with eggs, chicken breast, bread, and ketchup. I managed to put enough cash aside to fuel myself with cheap Russian vodka and watered down Chinese beer. In the midst of this terrible situation, I was still able to lay some hot Russian women in my bed and save enough cash to pull myself out of this shit situation.

How did I pull myself out of this situation? I used my mouth.. Uh, wait.. that doesn’t sound right. What I mean to say is that I talked my way into better life circumstances. One thing that I’ve learned about the world is that you can talk your way into and out of anything that you so choose. You could call it GAME, but it works in every field of work. Male and female bosses both have a deep respect for GAME (charisma, charm, and persistence). Why? Because GAME was necessary for them to reach the power positions that they hold in their corporate businesses. So when they see a young determined dude march into their offices and present them with decent ideas in an effort to benefit their businesses, they invest. Why? Not because that guy has any good ideas, but because they see something in him.

What do bosses see in this guy? They see themselves. That’s right, he’s a mirror of who they were. Just some young chump with a willingness to go the extra mile. Bosses like this guy.

They don’t give a fuck about your university papers, they don’t give a fuck about where you went to school, and they certainly don’t give a fuck about where you were born or raised.

Do you want to know what they give a fuck about?

They give a fuck about how you can benefit them. They give a fuck about whether they can trust you to make decisions on your own which result in profits for the business. They give a fuck about whether you can turn them a profit.

And don’t ever think for one second that bosses don’t judge you for who you fuck. Your bosses observe the women that you date and use it as a way to determine your value as a man and an employee. Bosses (both male and female) are much more inclined to promote low performers who bang hot women, than high performers who bang whales and damaged women. I don’t have any solid evidence to prove this, but I have a pair of eyes just like you. That’s just how it is.

But anyway, let’s leave this topic and come back to the main point which is NUMBERS. MONEY. Your talk is worthless unless you have a little money to back you up.

So let’s take a look at some spreadsheets that will assist you to better manage your money. But before we begin, I want to note that:

1. You should have a stable income before you think about saving.
2. If you’re living in a foreign country as an expat, then you should create a comfortable lifestyle with a clear plan for the future before you begin to think about saving.

In the spreadsheets below I will outline how to manage your money from an average income to a bare minimum income in China.

Spreadsheet #1:

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  1. 16,000 RMB is your net income, and that’s a respectable salary in China. It allows you to have enough wiggle room to save a sizable portion of your income and lead a reasonably comfortable life.
  2. In terms of savings, I’m going to set it at 25% across the board.
  3. If you’re a bachelor like me then there’s no need to select an apartment that’s more than 50 square meters. And most decent apartment rentals at this size range from 1,400 RMB to 2,000 RMB/month (depending on the city that you live in). So I’m going to say that 1,700 RMB – 1,800 RMB is a good price point to aim for in terms of apartment rentals.
  4. Water and electric bills tend to even out at 200 RMB at the end of each month even if you’re excessive. It’s a small expense in relation to your net income.
  5. Cable/ Internet/ Phone bill. Most mobile service companies in China offer package deals where you get free cable, unlimited internet, 20 gigs of mobile data, free text messaging, and 100 calling minutes for 100 RMB/ month. Another small expense.
  6. I’ve set the budget relatively high for the food budget because I understand the importance of quality food. What you eat is going to impact you in every facet of your life. 700 RMB a week on food allows you to have the freedom to eat whatever you want to eat.
  7. Taxi/ train/ bus. Once again, I’ve set the budget for this expense relatively high. The reason being is because taking trains and buses is exhausting. Whatever energy that you had leftover after finishing work is going to be burned out after commuting home on a train or a bus. I prefer to take taxis and get a little nap during the one hour commute to and from work. This way I don’t come home with an empty battery. I have enough energy left over to hit the gym, read books, bang, study, and write.
  8. If you want to workout in a good Chinese gym where the equipment and overall gym atmosphere is sufficient, then you‘re going to be spending around 200 RMB a month. No… I’m not talking about the commercialized fitness clubs that appeal to middle aged women with flashing lights, desperate salespeople, desperate coaches, yoga classes, and spin classrooms. No, fuck that noise. I’m talking about the gyms where the equipment is top notch. There are no desperate personal trainers or salespeople anywhere in sight, and all of the people who go there have one main objective in mind: To lift heavyweights.
  9. Entertainment. I’ve set the budget at 500 RMB a week for entertainment and I think that’s reasonable. 500 RMB a week allows you to go out twice a week without having to be too cautious about your budget. Alternatively, you could use this money for other things.
  10. So here’s your outlook after one year:
    1. You have 72,000 RMB saved, assuming that you didn’t spend the money that’s leftover in your monthly total box.
    2. If you lose your job, then you can survive for the next 10 months if you live like a monk.

Spreadsheet #2:

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  1. 10,000 RMB is your net income, and that’s what I’d call a safe zone salary. You’re not doing good, and you’re not doing bad. You’re in a safe zone, and your goal should be to get out of this safe zone as soon as possible. Why? Because your freedom to pursue different avenues and save money is more limited than the guy who’s earning 16K. So the first thing that you need to do is persuade your boss to increase your salary. If that doesn’t work then you’re going to have to consider taking on side jobs until you can find a better job.
  2. Taxi/ Train/ Bus. I’ve decreased the monthly budget by 500 RMB which means that you’re going to have to live with taking the bus and train sometimes. No big deal.
  3. Entertainment. The entertainment money has been cut by two thirds. What does this mean for you? It means that if you want to maintain an active social life, then you’re going to have to get creative and take on some outdoorsy activities (such as cycling, hiking, tennis, and running). Check out a good movie, coffee shop, an art museum, a nearby park, the beach, or a pool hall; these sorts of things.
  4. So here’s your outlook after one year:
    1. You have 36,600 RMB saved, assuming that you didn’t spend the money that’s leftover in your monthly total box.
    2. If you lose your job, then you can survive for the next 5 months if you live like a monk.

Spreadsheet #3:

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  1. 7,000 RMB is your net income. This is bottom of the barrel. If you don’t have any friends now, you better start making them fast. Make as many friends as fast as you can, and leverage your connections to find better job opportunities.
  2. Food. Your food budget is going to decrease by 300 RMB. What does this mean for you? It means no more bacon for breakfast.
  3. Taxi/ train/ bus. Forget about a taxi, you’re taking the bus and train everywhere if you can’t get there by foot. 10 RMB a day is enough.
  4. Gym. Yup… You’re going to have go to one of those flashy commercial gyms for middle aged women. Plan to go one hour before closing hours. Most of the yoga mats, hula hoops, and single moms will be nowhere in sight around this time of night. Look at the bright side, you’ll save 1,200 RMB.
  5. Entertainment. 100 RMB a week is what you got, use this money wisely. Use this money to build relationships with people who are in better situations than you.
  6. So here’s your outlook after one year:
    1. You have 22,800 RMB saved, assuming that you didn’t spend the money that’s leftover in your monthly total box.
    2. If you lose your job, then you can survive for the next 3 months if you live like a monk.

In my white book I outlined a basic money management manual that worked for me at the time when I wrote it. Consider this a new and updated version.

Movies I Recommend

1. The Crow

2. Goodfellas

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3. Fight Club

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4. Casino

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5. Bloodsport

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6. Friday Night Lights

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7. American Psycho

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8. The Matrix

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9. Blade Runner 2049

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10. Idiocracy

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11. Glengarry Glen Ross

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12. The Truman Show

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13. Haggard

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14. Back To The Future

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15. How To Be A Man

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16. The Quiet Man

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I need a rest.

I am taking a rest from blogging for a while. I need some time to focus on writing my new book, Story Time, which is planned to release before August 2019. 

I have decided that this will be the final cover design for my new book.

 

I will not be continuing my Koran study because I’ve lost interest. Maybe I’ll take another look at this Holy book later in my life.

Over the next two months, I will try my best to keep my website updated with the following:

  1. My book progress
  2. My Bible study notes
  3. Feedback on the books that I read

With that said I’d like to share with you all of the benefits and lessons from my content this year, including a list of my most viewed articles. 

31 benefits of my content: 

  1. Why women need you more than you need them.
  2. How you have been manually programmed to overvalue low-value women.
  3. Why long hair (for women) is an indicator of fertility and good health.
  4. Indicators of a low-quality woman.
  5. How your testosterone levels correlate with your success in career, women and well being.
  6. Why pornography consumption encourages you to pursue low-quality women.
  7. Why your friends, colleagues, and family build barriers to prevent you from succeeding when you’re on the path to self-improvement.
  8. How you can overcome those barriers.
  9. How reading books helps you to overcome unexpected obstacles and life challenges with ease.
  10. Why reproduction is more important for women than education and career.
  11. A guide that helps you to see the world and everything around you as it truly is.
  12. One easy thing that men can do which will get them much further ahead in life.
  13. Why the normalization of single motherhood is a cause for concern, and why you should reconsider single parenthood.
  14. How to identify whether a woman that you’re interested in is realistic about her perception of herself.
  15. How a woman’s perception of self will help you to determine whether she’s worthy of a long term commitment.
  16. Why you feel shame, guilt, and fear more frequently than any other emotion.
  17. How you can confront these emotions by being honest with yourself.
  18. Why the pursuit of fun, excitement, and adventure leads to a dead end; and how you can find deeper meaning in life.
  19. A better understanding of why male-dominated workplace environments tend to be healthier than female dominated workplace environments.
  20. A mindset that teaches women how to achieve loving relationships built on trust and respect, while simultaneously teaching men how to identify good quality women.
  21. What you can do to begin your journey as a writer and influencer.
  22. Why women who live in the moment end up miserable and lonely. What women can do to prevent this from happening.
  23. How you should manage relationships with single mothers.
  24. How you can begin to live life by your own means.
  25. How to identify the difference between women who date high-quality men and those who don’t.
  26. How women can increase their beauty for FREE.
  27. How to identify the difference between women who are only good for sex and women who are worthy of relationships, marriage, and motherhood.
  28. How lifting weights and staying fit correlates with your success in career, women, money, health, and fulfillment.
  29. Why the most masculine men always win in battles with other men.
  30. Why the most feminine women always win in battles with other women.
  31. One book that can turn you into a winner in every aspect of your life.

Most viewed articles this year:

Priceless: A story of two lovers in a modern age

HOW YOU CAN BE MORE BEAUTIFUL, LOVELY AND ELEGANT (FOR WOMEN)

LIFTING 健身

Your brain on porn.

OLD TESTAMENT BIBLE: NOTES 1 旧约圣经:注释1

Stop doing this and you will get much further ahead in life.

The True Value Of A Father

OLD TESTAMENT BIBLE: NOTES 2

An Introduction To The Red Pill

An Introduction To The Blue Pill

What would our grandparents do?

Women are a reflection of their current or prior boyfriend.

Why I choose to live my life like a cat

Be transparent about these 3 things if you intend to date a single mom.

Maximize your natural beauty

Build a body like a caveman hunter in forty minutes.

Should I BANG or DATE?

I can wait a moment to hold the door open for you.

我将暂时停止创作,好好休息一下。因为我需要一些时间来集中精力创作我的新书《故事时间》,计划是在2019年8月之前出版。

所有本书的封面设计都收到了不同程度的反馈,你可以在这里为我的新书封面投票以选出最优的一个。

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我已决定将它作为新书封面

我不会继续读古兰经了,因为我已经失去了兴趣。也许在以后的人生中,我会重新审视这本经典。

在接下来的两个月里,我将尽最大努力保持网站更新如下:

新书进展

圣经笔记

对我读过的书的评价

我还想和大家分享一下我今年的收获和教训,包括我的一些点击率比较高的文章。

我的作品中的35个亮点:

为什么相比男人需要女人,女人更需要男人。

你是如何被诱导来欣赏低素质女性的。

影视和音乐如何让你的大脑感知并理解周围事物。

如何识别侵害你的媒体内容。

为什么女人的长发是生育能力和健康状况的标志。

低素质女性的标志。

性激素水平如何与你的事业,女人和幸福生活产生联系。

为什么色情作品鼓励你追求低质量的女人。

为什么你的朋友、同事和家人会在你自我提高的道路上设置障碍。

如何克服这些障碍。

读书如何帮助你轻松克服生活中的挑战。

为什么对女性来说,生育比教育和事业更重要。

这本指南教会男人如何辨别和培养女人的优秀品质,同时也教会女人如何从男人那里获得她们渴望的爱、情感和关注。

一本帮助你看清世界和周围一切真实面目的指南书。

男人能做的一件简单的事,可以帮助他们在生活中走得更好。

为什么单身母亲的泛滥化是个值得关注的问题。

如何确定你感兴趣的女人对自己的看法是否真实。

女人对你的看法将如何帮助你决定她是否值得你这么做。

为什么羞耻、内疚和恐惧比其他情绪更容易被感觉到。

如何通过诚实面对自己来面对这些情绪。

为什么追求乐趣、刺激和冒险会走到死胡同,以及如何在生活中找到更深层次的意义。

更好地理解为什么男性主导的工作环境更好。

一种教会女性如何建立信任和尊重基础上的爱情关系的心态,同时也教会男性如何辨别优秀的女性。

如何更好地理解女人口中的潜台词。

作为一个作家和有影响力的人该做些什么。

为什么只活在当下的女人最终会痛苦和孤独,女性该做些什么来防止这种情况。

如何处理好与单身妈妈的关系。

如何开始用自己的方式生活。

如何区分女性的质量高低。

女性如何轻松增强自己的魅力。

如何区分只适合做炮友和值得交往,结婚生子的女性。

健身和保持健康如何在你的事业、异性缘、金枪、健康和成就上产生影响。

为什么有男子气概的男人总是在战斗中取胜。

为什么有女性魅力的女人总是在竞争中获胜。

一本可以让你成为人生赢家的书。

一年来浏览次数最多的文章:

中年爱情故事

女性如何让自己变得更美丽、可爱、优雅

健身

色情片对大脑的影响

旧约圣经:笔记1

停止这样做,你会在生活中取得更多的进步

父亲的真正价值

旧约圣经:笔记2

红色药丸指南

蓝色药丸指南

我们的祖父母会怎么做?

女人能映射出她们的现任或前任男友

为什么我选择像猫一样生活

如果你想和单身妈妈恋爱,请坦诚这三件事

最大化你的自然美

四十分钟练出穴居人身材

是否继续发展关系

我的大门为你敞开

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