Nowhere. Nothing. Dead end.

Reading a book, going to the gym, and drinking coffee at a local cafe is more appealing to me than going out to a bar or a club. I would not attribute this to being more sophisticated than others, it’s just that a man’s interests change over time.

Men go through life making up for experiences that they didn’t have when they were younger. A 30-year-old man who spends his free time socializing with everyone and scouting for young women at the local pub every weekend most likely didn’t have that experience in his early twenties. A 30-year-old man who just wants to be left alone to enjoy the simple pleasures that life has to offer (reading, writing, a cup of coffee, and social time at his convenience) – this man has spent at least half a decade experiencing the party/social butterfly lifestyle. And he has learned a few things from it.

1. He has learned that 98% of the people that he encounters are a waste of time.
2. He has learned that his money could be spent on better things.
3. He has learned that the majority of women whom he encounters late at night are useless whores with roast beef front holes.
4. He has learned that his time is more valuable than money.
5. He has learned that the party/social butterfly lifestyle leads to a dead end.

You will reach a stage of your life where you will want to be left alone. You can not predict when you will reach this stage. You will experience it when you have enough experience under your belt.

For my younger readers, there is no need to be pessimistic. Love, learn, live, and let live. I just want you to understand that the pursuit of endless fun, excitement, and adventure leads to nowhere. Keep this in the back of your mind, and you will be just fine.

读书、健身、在当地的咖啡馆喝杯咖啡比去酒吧或俱乐部对我更有吸引力。这并不是什么奇怪的事情,只是男人的兴趣会随着时间改变。

男人的一生都在弥补他们年轻时没有的经历。一个把他的空闲时间都花在社交和夜店寻欢上的30岁男人,很可能是由于他在20岁时没有这些经历。而一个只想独自享受生活中简单的快乐(阅读,写作,喝咖啡,简单方便的社交)的30岁男人,他至少已经花了5年时间来体验派对,然后从中学到了一些东西。

他认识到所遇到的98%的人都是在浪费时间。

他知道他的钱可以花在更有价值的东西上。

他了解到,在深夜遇到的女人大多数都不怎么样。

他已经知道时间比金钱更宝贵。

他清楚夜夜笙歌的生活只会让人堕落。

你早晚会到达一个你想要独处的人生阶段。你无法预测自己何时会到达这个阶段,但当你有足够的经验和阅历后,它自然就会来找你了。

对于我的年轻读者来说,没有必要对生活悲观。爱,学习,生活…我只是想让你明白,一味追求刺激和乐趣是不会有好结果的。把这些记在心里,你就会好起来的。

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