Be transparent about these 3 things if you intend to date a single mom.

There is nothing wrong with dating a single mom if you have some type of connection with her, and you enjoy her company. That’s cool. However, I’ve learned that there are 3 things which you need to be very clear about from the beginning of a relationship with a single mom.

1. You will not get close to her children.

Understand: This is not your kid, and it never will be yours. I don’t care if her kid looks up to you as a role model, mimics you, and gives you a big superhero welcome when you walk in the door. The bottom line is that her kid doesn’t belong to you. It’s best that you avoid her children at all costs, so you don’t risk getting emotionally attached to them. Schedule some time with her at night when her kid is fast asleep, or during the day when the kid is at school.

2. You will never babysit her children.

Watching your girlfriends kid for five minutes may not seem like a big deal to you, but it is a big deal. This is a compliance test. She is testing her boundaries with you and trying to figure out how much wiggle room she has in the relationship. If you can watch her kid for five minutes, then you can watch her kid for a whole night while she goes out on the town with her colleagues. If a single mom attempts to use this compliance test on you then I suggest that you pull out your phone, scroll through your messages and inform her that you have to leave for an important business meeting or something. Give her a kiss, tell her that you’ll call her later and go on your way.

3. You will leave her if she withholds sex from you.

This is a power move that all women use to test men in an attempt to gain control of the relationship. It’s not exclusive to single moms, however, you should never tolerate a single mom putting your dick on detention. The first time that she attempts to use this power move on you, I suggest that you gently take her by the hand and walk her to the front door. No need for hard feelings, just tell her that it has been fun spending time with her and perhaps you guys will cross paths again in the future.

如果你和单身妈妈有明确的关系,并且你喜欢她的陪伴,那么和她在一起没什么不好的,然而,据我了解,从一开始与单亲妈妈交往时,有三件事你需要非常清楚。

你不能随便接近她的孩子

解读:这不是你的孩子,也永远不会是你的。wo不在乎她的孩子会不会把你当成榜样,模仿你,在你进门时给你一个超级英雄般的欢迎。她的孩子是底线,你最好别轻易招惹她的孩子。这样你就不会有感情上依恋她们母子的风险。尽量把和她相处的时间安排在孩子睡着之后的晚上或是上学的白天。

你不能照顾她的孩子

替你女朋友照看孩子五分钟对你来说也许不算什么,但这确实是一件大事。她是在试探你们两个之间的界限,并试图弄清楚她在这段关系中所占据的主动权。如果你能照看五分钟孩子,那就能在她和同事出去玩的时候照顾一天。如果有单身母亲试图让你这样做,那么我建议你拿出手机,假装浏览信息或打电话,告诉她你必须要离开参加一个重要的会议或其他事情。然后给她一个吻,告诉她稍后会打给她。

如果她拒绝和你做爱,就离开她

这是所有女人用来考验男人的一关,目的是为了控制这段关系。这并不是单身妈妈独有的,然而你决不应该容忍一个单身女人让你的兄弟关禁闭。当她第一次这样对你做时,你应该温柔的牵着她的手把她压在身下。

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